Seeking Jesus in the Chaos

Episodes

Dec. 19, 2024

S3E7 Do the hard things, do it afraid

Miss shares her experience with joining a new church and doing scary things in order to find a true community. Rachel shares her experience on staff at her church in the role of connections and how important it is to connect…
Dec. 5, 2024

S3E6 Start saying compliments out loud

Are you good at giving compliments? What about receiving them? Miss and Rach discuss the importance of encouraging and lifting others up and how it can change so much in our friendships and community.
Nov. 14, 2024

S3E5 Let’s read the gospels… with our dad!

This week, Miss and Rach had their fantastic dad, Curt, on the podcast. He brought them through his fifty-year learning journey to understand the importance of reading the gospels. He shared about his discipleship experience…
Oct. 31, 2024

S3E4: Do we really view God as Holy?

Jesus teaches us how to pray in the sermon on the mount (Matthew 5-7). He said, “Hallowed be thy name.” Do we ever stop to ask what that actually means? Miss and Rach walk through this one verse and dive into what living a …
Oct. 17, 2024

S3E3: How to be loving when it comes to hot topics

Miss and Rachel cover hot topics! They discuss the dangers of turning non-Christians away when we approach hot issues in a black-and-white way. They share their own experience with wounding people and no longer being able to…
Oct. 3, 2024

S3E2: Jesus loved and valued women

Miss, Rach and their mom, Barb, discuss how the Bible displayed Jesus’ great value and love for women. Not all women feel valued in this world, in their lives, or at their jobs. The three women spend the episode overviewing …
Sept. 20, 2024

S3E1 Welcome back! Podcast changes & life updates

Welcome back to Season 3 of A Mess, Nonetheless. Miss and Rach talk about their summer. They talk about the hard things they've been walking through, the good things God is doing in their lives, their faith goals, and what's…
May 23, 2024

S2E27 Wrapping up for the summer!

Miss and Rachel discuss the last season of podcasting and what they learned this year through the processing of creating episodes with you guys in mind. They will be back sometime in the next school year because they take of…
May 16, 2024

S2E26 Being slow to speak, especially in conflict

Are we slow to speak and quick to listen? Melissa and Rachel cannot say that's something that has come naturally to them! In fact, Rachel is still pretty much straight up bad at it! Melissa shares how God taught her to do ju…
May 9, 2024

S2E25 Living with being misunderstood

When other people don't see us for who we are, or misunderstand our character, it hurts. It's painful and yet sometimes we aren't meant to defend ourselves. Sometimes we have to surrender the situation to God and trust Him t…
May 2, 2024

S2E24 Biblical & personal convictions (& let’s talk about legalism too!)

In this episode Miss and Rach talk about the difference between Biblical convictions and personal convictions, and what happens when we put our personal convictions on others—legalism! They share examples from their own live…
April 25, 2024

S2E23 The dangers of confusing feelings with truth

Do you ever find yourself responding to someone or a scenario based on how you feel, rather than on reality? Emotions are not bad, or unbiblical, but responding out of our feelings can get us into a lot of trouble. Join Miss…
April 4, 2024

S2E22 Let's talk about being a "people pleaser"

You know who you are, you struggle to say “no” and you just want people to always be happy! Unfortunately, being a people-pleaser can come at the expense of our own happiness, sanity and can lead to resentment and anxiousnes…
March 28, 2024

S2E21 The Power of P.A.U.S.E. with Salina Johnson

In this episode Miss and Rach learn all about the Power of P.A.U.S.E. from their guest, Salina. It is a powerful and useful tool designed to help us when we feel bogged down, overdone or overwhelmed! Rachel has already begun…
March 7, 2024

S2E20 When God doesn’t feel safe

Melissa and Rachel were asked to podcast a segment as part of a women's conference regarding when God doesn't feel safe. This episode is from that conference and we hope you'll find something beneficial in it.    Show Notes:…
Feb. 29, 2024

S2 E19 How Jesus modeled community

Melissa and Rachel walk through the different ways that Jesus modeled community and what we can learn from Him. Tune in this week to see how you can be challenged in your relationship with the community around you! Show Note…
Feb. 22, 2024

S2E18 When our friends don't have kids

Miss and Rach talk with Katie Olson about what it's like to not only walk through infertility, but to be in your 30's and 40's without children when the majority of people around you have them. We hope and pray that all our …
Feb. 15, 2024

S2 E17 When God is silent part 2

Miss and Rach dove into some really important points regarding seasons of silence from God. They have a few points left to cover in this episode including the intimacy and trust that can come from being allowed to be silent …
Feb. 8, 2024

S2 E16 When God is silent — part 1

Rachel and Melissa discuss the seasons in our lives when God feels silent. We are actively showing up, but we can't feel His presence for weeks, months or years on end. They also talk about times when we're praying for speci…
Feb. 1, 2024

S2 E15 Let’s discuss spiritual warfare

Miss and Rachel had something planned at the start of this episode, but they decided that "bombs go first." Rachel was having a really tough morning and needed to dig into some tactics to fight the enemy. So they ended up sp…
Jan. 25, 2024

S2 E14 Walking through grief — or alongside someone who is

Rachel talks with Kristin Smith about grief and what it looks like to move forward after experiencing a devastating loss. Kristin shares the kinds of things that are helpful when walking alongside a friend who is grieving, a…
Jan. 18, 2024

S2E13 When they “force” me to yell

Very few people don't ever yell, and very few people aren't surrounded by people who make them feel crazy once in a while! Miss and Rach dive into what the Bible says about the subject and what we should do when we habituall…
Jan. 11, 2024

S2E12 Talking about the hard things in marriage

If you’re married, you know it’s hard, but do you know it’s hard for others too? Miss and Rach talk about the hard times in marriage and the benefit of sharing it with others so we know we’re not alone in the journey.
Dec. 21, 2023

S2E11 Forgiveness: a 2-step process.

Changing our perception in order to move forward. We’ve all had to forgive others at different times, it’s a part of life. Have you ever noticed that sometimes even after forgiving someone it feels like the hurt feelings con…